Privacy-first dating safety platform

Date smarter.
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The private, women-first community for safer dating.

No Facebook. No screenshots. No compromise.

Built from the ground up in 2026. Not affiliated with any other app.

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$1.16B
Lost to romance scams in 2024
64%
Of women feel unsafe on dates
1 in 3
Online profiles are misleading
100%
Anonymous & private

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Dating shouldn't feel unsafe.

Group chats disappear. Screenshots leak. Information gets lost. Women are left to figure things out alone — again and again.

SafeTea is built differently.

A purpose-built platform designed from day one to protect — not expose.

Community

City-based communities

Connect with women in your city who share real dating experiences. Private, local, and relevant.

Privacy

Anonymous by design

No real names, no public profiles, no screenshots. Your identity is always protected.

Safety

Built to protect

Moderated for accuracy and safety. Every feature was designed with your security in mind.

Not just warnings

Celebrate the good ones too.

Our Good Guys feed lets you share positive dating experiences and highlight men who treat women with respect. Because accountability goes both ways.

Everything you need to stay safe.

From real-time alerts to AI-powered safety tools — features that actually protect you.

Community Feed

Community Feed

Browse and post experiences anonymously. See what others are saying about the people you're dating.

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Date Check-In

Date Check-In

Share your location and date details with trusted contacts. They'll know where you are and when you're safe.

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SafeTea Reports

SafeTea Reports

Generate verified dating safety reports. Document experiences with timestamps and verified details.

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Name Watch

Name Watch

Save names and get instant alerts when someone in your city posts about them. Know before you go.

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Photo Verification

Photo Verification

AI-powered photo analysis to verify profile authenticity before you meet. Upload a photo, get instant results.

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Invite & Earn

Invite & Earn

Share SafeTea with friends and earn free premium time. Build your safety community together.

Free

How SafeTea works

Three simple steps to safer dating.

Join
1

Join your city

Connect with women in your local dating community. Completely free.

Share
2

Share or search

Look up someone you're seeing or share your own experience — safely and anonymously.

Protect
3

Protect each other

Real insights and real-time alerts from women who've been there. No noise, no fakes.

Name Watch — know before you go.

Save the names of people you're seeing. If anyone in your city posts about them, you'll know immediately.

1
Add names privately

Enter the full name, first name, or initials of anyone you're dating. Your list is completely private — only you can see it.

2
We monitor your city's feed

Every new community post is automatically checked against your watched names using exact, initials, and partial matching.

3
Get alerted instantly

When there's a match, you receive a real-time alert with the post details — so you can make informed decisions.

Name Watch
Jake M.
Jake M, JM, Jake Morrison
2 matches
Tyler R.
Tyler R, TR
No matches
New Match Found Exact Match
"Warning about Jake M. from Hinge"

Has anyone else dated Jake M. in Lincoln Park? He told me he was single but I just found out he's been seeing at least 3 other women from the app...

Built for privacy. Designed for trust.

Every decision we make starts with your safety.

No real names required
No public profiles
No screenshots allowed
Moderated for safety

Simple, transparent pricing

Start free. Upgrade when you're ready for full protection.

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Community feed
Inbox messaging
Safety alerts
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